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Customs and Etiquette

Language, greetings, dress, dining, tipping and useful phrases, country by country.

Last checked October 2026.

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France

Language

French is the language of the French Alps, from Chamonix and Megève in the Haute-Savoie to Courchevel, Méribel and Val d'Isère in the Savoie. English is spoken in the palace hotels, the ski schools and the leading restaurants of the big resorts, but a few words of French are always appreciated.

Greetings

Say "Bonjour, Madame" or "Bonjour, Monsieur" on entering a shop, a restaurant or a hotel before asking for anything; skipping the greeting reads as rude. From early evening the greeting becomes "Bonsoir". Friends greet each other with a kiss on each cheek (la bise); a handshake is right on first meeting.

Dress

Ski clothing is normal at lunch on the mountain and at après-ski, which takes place in the bars at the end of the ski day while guests are still in ski gear; the French name is used the world over. In the evening the grand hotels keep their own standards; check each hotel's dress code.

Dining and shopping

Lunch is usually served from noon to about 2 pm and dinner from about 7.30 pm; outside those hours many restaurants do not serve full meals. Book ahead for lunch at the great mountain restaurants in season. In the resorts most shops open every day during the season; in the valley towns many close on Sunday afternoons.

Tipping

Service is included in French prices by law ("service compris"). A tip is not owed, but for good service it is usual to leave a few euros or round up, and more at the great restaurants.

Mountain etiquette

The international FIS Rules for Conduct, set out under Switzerland below, apply on the pistes. In mountain huts (refuges), book beds and meals ahead, bring a hut sleeping bag, keep quiet in the evening and take rubbish back down.

Phrases

EnglishLocalSay it
Hello / Good dayBonjourbon-ZHOOR
Good eveningBonsoirbon-SWAHR
PleaseS'il vous plaîtseel voo PLAY
Thank youMercimair-SEE
The bill, pleaseL'addition, s'il vous plaîtlah-dee-SYON, seel voo PLAY
Enjoy your mealBon appétitbon ah-pay-TEE
GoodbyeAu revoiroh ruh-VWAHR

Switzerland

Language

Switzerland has four national languages: German, French, Italian and Romansh. German is spoken by about 62 per cent of the population in the north, centre and east; French by about 23 per cent in the west (Romandy); Italian by about 8 per cent in Ticino and southern Graubünden; and Romansh by about 0.5 per cent, only in Graubünden, which is officially trilingual. In the German-speaking resorts (Gstaad, Zermatt, St. Moritz, Davos, Klosters, Andermatt) people speak Swiss German dialect day to day and use Standard German for writing. Standard German is understood everywhere, and English is widely spoken in the great hotels.

Greetings

"Grüezi" is the polite greeting in German-speaking Switzerland, and "Grüezi mitenand" greets a group. "Merci" is the usual thank you, borrowed from French. In the French-speaking resorts (Verbier, Crans-Montana, Villars) use French, and in Ticino use Italian. Punctuality is expected: arrive on time for a dinner, a meeting or a private ski lesson.

Dress

On the mountain, ski clothing is normal in mountain restaurants and at après-ski. In the evening the palace hotels keep a formal standard, and some ask gentlemen for a jacket at dinner while their other restaurants stay smart casual. Check each hotel's own dress code before arrival.

Dining and shopping

Lunch is usually served between noon and 2 pm and dinner from 6 pm to 9.30 pm; many city restaurants serve throughout the day. "En Guete" is said before a meal. When glasses are raised, look each person in the eye as you touch glasses and say "Prost" (or "Santé" in the French-speaking resorts). Most shops close on Sundays, a long tradition backed by strict rules on Sunday work; shops at airports, railway stations and some tourist areas and ski resorts are the exceptions.

Quiet hours

Sundays and public holidays are kept quiet, and most communes set evening quiet hours, usually from about 10 pm; noisy work, loud music and even laundry or mowing are frowned on at those times. Exact hours are set locally, often in the rules of each apartment building, so chalet and apartment guests should ask.

Tipping

Service is included in Swiss prices. Since a collective labour agreement in 1974, staff pay is covered by the price, so a tip is not owed. Most people still add one: rounding up, or about 10 per cent for good service. A very small tip can read as criticism, and leaving nothing is better than leaving a token amount.

Mountain etiquette

On the pistes the international FIS Rules for Conduct apply: respect others; ski or ride in control; the skier behind chooses a route that does not endanger the one ahead; overtake with enough space; look uphill before entering a run or starting off; do not stop in narrow places or where visibility is poor; climb or walk down at the side of the piste; obey signs and markings; help at an accident; and exchange details after any incident.

In mountain huts, the Swiss hut wardens' association (Schweizer Hütten) asks guests to book beds and meals in advance and to cancel if plans change; to carry enough cash, as many huts take only cash; to sleep where the warden assigns; to bring a hut sleeping bag, which is compulsory in many huts; to keep quiet from about 10 pm; to pack the evening before an early start; and to carry all rubbish back down to the valley.

Phrases

EnglishLocalSay it
Hello (polite)GrüeziGREW-et-see
PleaseBitteBIT-teh
Thank youMerci / Merci vielmal (thanks a lot)MAIR-see / MAIR-see FEEL-mahl
Good eveningGueten OobeGOO-eh-ten OH-beh
The bill, pleaseDie Rechnung, bitte (Standard German)dee REKH-noong, BIT-teh
Enjoy your mealEn Gueteen GOO-eh-teh
GoodbyeUf Widerluegeoof VEE-der-loo-eh-geh

Italy

Language

Italian is spoken across the Italian Alps and the great lakes (Como, Maggiore, Garda), with important exceptions. The Aosta Valley is officially bilingual in Italian and French, and many locals also speak a Franco-Provençal patois. In South Tyrol German is the majority language (about two-thirds of the population), Italian is spoken by about a quarter, and Ladin, a Rhaeto-Romance language, by about 4 per cent, mainly in Val Gardena and Val Badia; place names appear in German and Italian, and in the Ladin valleys also in Ladin (Ortisei is Urtijëi; Selva is Sëlva). In Cortina and the rest of the Veneto Dolomites, Italian is the language, with Ladin in some valleys. English is spoken in the leading hotels.

Greetings

"Buongiorno" is the polite greeting until the afternoon, and "Buonasera" from mid-afternoon on; greet staff on entering a shop or restaurant. In South Tyrol "Grüß Gott" and "Servus" are used as in Austria, and German is the natural first language in most villages. Friends greet each other with a kiss on each cheek; a handshake is right on first meeting.

Dress

Italians dress with care in the evening, in the resorts as in the cities, and smart dress is expected at dinner in the grand hotels of the mountains and the lakes. In the mountains, ski clothing is normal at lunch in the huts and at après-ski. Check each hotel's dress code.

Dining and shopping

Lunch is usually served from about 12.30 pm to 2.30 pm and dinner from about 7.30 pm, later on the lakes in summer. Most bills carry a cover charge (coperto) per person for bread and table service; it is legal and shown on the menu. In towns many shops close for a long midday break and on Sundays; in the resorts most open daily during the season.

Tipping

A per-person cover charge (coperto) for bread and table setting is normal and is not a tip, and a service charge (servizio) may already be on the bill. Leaving a few euros, or up to about 10% for excellent service, is appreciated.

Mountain etiquette

The FIS Rules for Conduct, set out under Switzerland above, apply on the pistes. Italian law also requires skiers and snowboarders under 18 to wear a helmet, and requires everyone on the pistes to hold third-party liability insurance, which can be bought with the lift pass. In mountain huts (rifugi), book ahead, bring a hut sleeping bag, keep quiet in the evening and take rubbish back down.

Phrases

EnglishLocalSay it
Hello / Good dayBuongiornobwon-JOR-no
Good eveningBuonaserabwon-ah-SAIR-ah
PleasePer favorepair fah-VOR-eh
Thank youGrazieGRAHT-see-eh
The bill, pleaseIl conto, per favoreeel KON-toh, pair fah-VOR-eh
Enjoy your mealBuon appetitobwon ah-peh-TEE-toh
GoodbyeArrivederciah-ree-veh-DAIR-chee

Germany (Bavaria)

Language

German is spoken throughout the Bavarian Alps, around Garmisch-Partenkirchen, Berchtesgaden and the Tegernsee. Locals often speak Bavarian dialect among themselves, but everyone uses Standard German with visitors, and English is spoken in the leading hotels.

Greetings

"Grüß Gott" is the standard greeting in Bavaria, as in Austria and South Tyrol; in dialect it is often heard as "griaß di" (to one person) or "griaß eich" (to several). "Servus" is the informal greeting among friends and works as both hello and goodbye.

Dress

Traditional dress (Tracht) is formal wear here, not costume. Dirndl and Lederhosen are worn at most weddings and festivals, for church on major holidays, and are regarded as the expected dress at Munich's Oktoberfest. A well-made dirndl or Tracht jacket is correct at a festive evening.

Dining and shopping

Shops in Bavaria close at 8 pm on weekdays and stay closed on Sundays and public holidays, under the Bavarian Shop Closing Act passed in 2025. Sunday rest has a constitutional basis in Germany. Bakeries may open for three hours on Sundays, and shops at main railway stations and airports are exempt; restaurants open as usual.

Tipping

Tipping is a thank you rather than an obligation. The custom is to round up, roughly 10 per cent (a bill of €27 becomes €30), and to give the tip to the server when paying rather than leaving it on the table.

Mountain etiquette

The FIS Rules for Conduct, set out under Switzerland above, are the international standard on the pistes. In mountain huts, book ahead, bring a hut sleeping bag, keep quiet in the evening and take rubbish back down.

Phrases

EnglishLocalSay it
Hello (polite)Grüß Gottgroose GOT
Hello (informal)ServusZAIR-voos
PleaseBitteBIT-teh
Thank youDankeDAHN-keh
Good eveningGuten AbendGOO-ten AH-bent
The bill, pleaseZahlen, bitteTSAH-len, BIT-teh
Enjoy your mealGuten AppetitGOO-ten ah-peh-TEET
GoodbyeAuf Wiedersehenowf VEE-der-zay-en

Austria

Language

German is the language of the Austrian Alps, from Kitzbühel and Lech to St. Anton and Ischgl. Local dialects are strong, but Standard German is used with visitors, and English is spoken in the leading hotels.

Greetings

"Grüß Gott" is the standard polite greeting, often heard as "griaß di" or "griaß eich". "Servus" is the informal hello and goodbye among friends.

Dress

On the mountain, ski clothing is the norm at mountain restaurants and après-ski. The dirndl is the expected dress for women at many cultural events and at weddings, and in rural areas many women also wear it in daily life.

Dining and shopping

Most shops close on Sundays under a federal law of 2003; weekday shop hours run from 6 am to 9 pm and Saturday hours to 6 pm. Bakeries, petrol stations, shops at railway stations and airports, and businesses in designated tourist zones may open on Sundays, and restaurants and bars open as usual.

Tipping

Round up to about 10 per cent and hand the tip to the server as you pay, rather than leaving it on the table.

Mountain etiquette

On the pistes the international FIS Rules for Conduct apply. In mountain huts, book beds and meals ahead, carry cash, keep quiet from about 10 pm and take all rubbish back down to the valley.

Phrases

EnglishLocalSay it
Hello (polite)Grüß Gottgroose GOT
Hello (informal)ServusZAIR-voos
PleaseBitteBIT-teh
Thank youDankeDAHN-keh
Good eveningGuten AbendGOO-ten AH-bent
The bill, pleaseZahlen, bitteTSAH-len, BIT-teh
Enjoy your mealGuten AppetitGOO-ten ah-peh-TEET
GoodbyeAuf Wiedersehenowf VEE-der-zay-en

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